Every Man or Women are always facing the problem of how they can get back their lost love or first love in their life. Many people share their experience in the love problem they face. Perhaps you (or someone you know) will recognize the feelings expressed during this role/
Every person are facing the question of "Please can you help me understand how to bring back the love of my life. One can only dated for a short time but they know he or she is the one. He or she has been hurt badly and didn't want to end things with them but they feel that they had to because they were frightened that they would be hurt them again. It was a very emotional ending for both of them
They (He or She) love them (He or She) so much that they let them go and they respect them so that they have stayed away to give him time and space. They have been apart for three months. In their(He or She) heart they know that they are meant to be together
But even though they were so sad and in despair they still felt loving and kindness towards them and their thoughts were always hopeful. And in their longing and praying several 'co-incidences' have happened. They both are unhappy and not able to co-operate themselves in their life.
Not long after they split up they started searching the web for anything that could give them advice about winning back the man or women they love and discovered the Law of Attraction. . .Can you help me?" Can you help me in getting back the first love and lost love they lost in life.
Sometimes a man will write to me in a similar vein: "I'm in love with this wonderful (or beautiful) woman. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?". How can he be successful in winning the heart of his first love.
In part one of this two-part series, we'll look at why you are not in a relationship with the "love of your dreams." In part two we'll look at what to do when a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also understand how the Law of attraction does bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!
Part one: "Why am I not in a relationship with the love of my life? What's happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work?" Of course it is!The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration. Remember that this law works everybody in their life of love.
You can know what you are vibrating by observing what is showing up in your life. When you think you are in love with someone—and are sure they are "the one," but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are not "the one".
If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them--a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally gravitated toward. Two scenarios are really at play here: One can understand that there are two scenarios in this "Law Of Attraction" that works for both.
The first scenario reflects its effect on the fact that is this. You are in love with the idea of this person being in love with you. That someone with these physical attributes, or character traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea. This effects your love story.
What often happens is that you meet someone who has five (or ten) characteristics that you are looking for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your "ideal mate." You think, "This is it! I've found 'the one' for me for the rest of my life.". This matters most.
However, the attraction just doesn’t seem mutual and you do not understand why. Didn’t the Law of Attraction bring them to you? Well, the real question is are they looking for someone like you? Are you a vibrational match for this person? Are you a good mate to a person you love.
Remember that the person you are looking at may only appear to have the qualities you desire. Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely different goals, beliefs and core values than yours. The love you made also reflects the love you make is true.
Even if you are very similar, what is he or she looking for? The role of their ideal mate may be very different from one you would truly like to play.
The second scenario goes like this. You are in love with the idea of being “allowed” to love this person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how “helpful” you could be for them as a mate. How well are you in sharing your happiness or unhappiness with your soul mate.
Searching for love with this motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find someone to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.). Some other factors also reflect on your life good or bad.
Victims attract someone who can make them a victim again. The poor attract someone who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.
But you see so many people around you happy and in love, why does it not come your way?. Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you. In order to attract the "ideal partner" someone who is in vibrational harmony with who you are you must be what you seek.
Are you looking for someone who is kind? You must be kind. Do you want someone with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want someone who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, "Do I keep commitments?" Do you want someone who is successful? Ask your self, "Am I vibrating success?"
Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something different in your life, you must change yourself--your vibration. It's an inside job and you can only change yourself-- you can't change someone else's vibration.
I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for this reason exactly you can’t change someone else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you. You can attract your ideal partner with this concern.
You can find joy in a healthy relationship. Just start with yourself. Understand the points like Know yourself, Accept yourself , Honor yourself , Trust yourself, Love yourself and Share yourself. When you do these things, the most perfect relationships happen in a perfectly natural way in your life.
Because of the fact that your healthy relationship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant others healthy relationship of your love you love is a major effect on the love you make. Be a perfect partner for your partner on both good and bad times.
Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach. Thousands of people have enjoyed her talks or articles about real-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every situation. Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking work that she is able to lift others to a higher level, very quickly.